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If you're exhausted from feeling disconnected and misunderstood every time you try to connect more deeply with your partner, and you're ready to experience a profound level of intimacy, mutual understanding, and shared growth...
Then it's time for a Heart-to-Heart Session!
Heart-to-Heart
Why Your Connection Feels Strained, Despite All the Love You Share
Why does it feel like you're pushing against a heavy tide, seeking a level of intimacy and understanding that always seems elusive?
In my exploration of relational depths and transformation, I've discovered that the solution often isn't about exerting more effort, finding the perfect match, or even fostering more love. Rather, it lies in uncovering and transforming the unseen dynamics that guide the rhythm of your relationship. These are the patterns that you've unconsciously absorbed from past relationships and experiences - your unique relational blueprint.
This understanding is one of the most groundbreaking revelations in your journey of love and partnership, and if you overlook it, it could cost you the depth of connection and mutual understanding you yearn for.
Attachment wounds and the resulting patterns of insecure attachment can invisibly steer your relationship onto a rocky road, creating cycles of emotional turbulence, misunderstanding, and disconnection that undermine the foundation of trust and intimacy you're striving to build. It's like trying to build a tower of love and mutual understanding on quicksand.
And then, there's the vital role of communication. You've probably heard it said that communication is the cornerstone of a successful relationship. But no one ever really teaches us how to communicate effectively, how to express our needs without triggering defensiveness, how to listen empathetically without getting lost in our interpretations, or how to navigate conflicts in a way that fosters mutual understanding and growth.
Moreover, consider the concept of conscious relationships- relationships where we don't just react out of old habits and unconscious patterns, but make deliberate choices based on our core values, shared goals, and mutual respect. A conscious relationship is a dance of love where both partners actively contribute to the harmony, balance, and growth of their shared journey.
Unfortunately, most of us don't learn about these vital aspects of relationship in school, or even in our families. We stumble through our relationships, doing the best we can with what we know, not realizing that there's a whole new world of connection, understanding, and growth waiting to be discovered.
Without a robust foundation of conscious connection and effective, vulnerable communication, relationships risk getting ensnared in frustration cycles, misunderstandings, and stagnation. The same issues persist, the arguments repeat like a broken record, and desires remain like silent wishes upon a distant star.
Imagine what could be possible if you could unearth these unseen dynamics, heal the wounds that are holding you back, learn the language of effective, resonant communication, and step into the dance of conscious co-creation?
That's exactly what we'll explore in our heart-to-heart session. Are you ready to dive into the depths of your relationship and emerge with newfound understanding, connection, and love?
To Deepen Intimacy and Co-create Conscious Relationships, You Have to Master Self-Awareness, Empathy, Vulnerability and Resonant Communication
But, something’s in the way:
You find yourselves caught in a repeating dance of misunderstandings, the same argument playing out in different scenarios, leaving you both exhausted and disconnected.
When issues arise, you find yourselves sweeping them under the rug, avoiding confrontation, but these unresolved issues pile up, creating a tension that underlies your interactions, leaving you feeling uneasy and frustrated.
You often feel unheard or misunderstood, with your attempts to express your needs leading to defensiveness instead of mutual understanding.
Despite your best efforts to show love and appreciation, your partner seems to receive it differently, as if you're speaking different love languages.
You find yourself walking on eggshells, fearing that your words or actions might trigger an unwanted reaction from your partner.
Moments of intimacy are fleeting, overshadowed by a pervasive feeling of distance or coldness that leaves your relationship feeling hollow and unfulfilled.
Say Goodbye To Unconscious Relationship Patterns and Disconnect
A repeating cycle of misunderstandings creates tension and unease, leaving you feeling drained and disconnected, resulting in a relationship that feels more like a battleground than a sanctuary of love.
You find yourself perpetually tiptoeing around sensitive topics, which leaves you feeling anxious and constricted. Your authentic self and genuine desires are muffled, resulting in a suppressed version of you that longs to be seen and appreciated.
Despite the love you share, you often feel unheard and misunderstood. This leaves a yearning gap in your heart for that deep, soulful connection that seems like an elusive mirage, forever out of reach.
But the fear of triggering unwanted reactions in your partner keeps you from expressing your needs openly and honestly, and you end up questioning if you'll ever experience the profound connection and mutual understanding you yearn for.
In the midst of this emotional whirlpool, doubts start creeping in, causing you to question the future of your relationship. This leaves you teetering on the edge of unease and uncertainty, longing for a beacon of hope.
Imagine the Beauty That Awaits When You Decide to Take a Step Towards Conscious Change
The transformation doesn't just stop at your relationship. A conscious, secure, and vibrantly flourishing relationship has the power to change your entire life.
Think about it: our relationships, especially with our significant others, form the cornerstone of our existence. They affect our self-esteem, our decisions, and even how we show up in the world. When your primary relationship(s) is secure, supportive, and fulfilling, it creates a ripple effect on every other aspect of your life.
Imagine transforming a cycle of constant misunderstandings, that once fostered feelings of frustration and isolation, into a vibrant relationship. One that cultivates an environment of trust, mutual understanding, and deep connection.
Imagine a relationship where communication becomes a bridge rather than a barrier. Where loneliness and disconnection give way to feelings of togetherness, intimacy, and mutual respect.
Imagine a relationship where you no longer feel stifled and suffocated, but where you're encouraged to express your authentic self and true desires. A relationship where you can feel truly seen, heard, and deeply cherished.
This metamorphosis brings with it an invigorating energy. No longer drained and disconnected, you're inspired and motivated, leading to increased productivity, creativity, and engagement in your work or business. Your self-esteem is boosted, enabling you to stand tall in your personal truth, and fostering authentic, fulfilling connections with not just your partner, but with everyone in your life.
A Vibrant, Fulfilling Relationship Fosters a Flourishing Life in Full Bloom
There's nothing more inspiring than seeing the transformation you desire come to life, witnessing the concrete, beautiful changes that elevate your relationship, and by extension, your entire life.
Each step you take towards conscious change is a step towards a more fulfilling life.
The truth is, you're here to give and receive love in its fullest, most authentic and vibrant form.
I’m here to help you realize that journey. Consider me YOUR relational alchemist. I create a container for you to unearth the gold within your relationship, fostering a deeper connection with your partner.
So that you can finally experience the intimacy, trust, and mutual understanding you yearve for, and bloom into the most profound love you've ever known.
Take a leap of faith towards a transformed relationship, and watch as your entire life mirrors this beautiful change. Sign up for your Heart-to-Heart Session now!
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Heart-to-Heart
A 75 minute transformational session for you and your beloved(s) to deepen intimacy, chart a shared path of growth, and cultivate a relationship filled with harmony and love.
A few Success Stories From The Breathe Intuit Community
From Lost and Longing for Escape to Clarity & Conscious Co-Creation
JENNA & MIKE’s JOURNEY
*Note: Names have been changed to maintain confidentiality
Jenna and Mike had shared a decade-long relationship and lived under the same roof for half that time. Despite the longevity and the countless hours they spent together, a genuine connection seemed elusive. Neither felt truly acknowledged or understood. Their relationship was characterized by cycles of anger, jealousy, triggers, and fights, interspersed with periods of cold withdrawal. Over the years, they sought solutions through self-help books, online courses, and personal healing journeys, but these efforts seemed to circle back to the same issues without creating the transformation they desperately sought. Tired from the constant tug of war and motivated by the principles of conscious relationships and attachment healing, they turned to me. Their primary goals were clear: better communication, a deep understanding of their triggers, and a way to heal the scars from past betrayals.
“We felt trapped in a cycle of misunderstandings and old hurts. It was like speaking different emotional languages, and we desperately wanted to reconnect and rediscover the love we knew we shared.”
We began by meticulously examining their triggers, using compassionate inquiry to dissect and understand their emotional reactions, and, importantly, the deep-seated wounds beneath. This revealed an intricate dance where one's reactions fed off and exacerbated the other's, spiraling conflicts further. Digging deeper into their past, we discovered numerous unresolved issues that cast lingering shadows over their present interactions. To address this, I introduced them to a holistic repair process designed to mend old wounds and prevent new ones. Our sessions emphasized the importance of clear communication; through clearings and regular check-ins, they learned to voice their emotions, needs, and desires transparently. Together, we pinpointed what made each of them feel secure and connected, enabling us to formulate strategies that solidified their bond. Venturing into the realm of embodied intimacy, we unearthed barriers that had historically kept them from truly accepting and relishing each other's love.
“We couldn’t see how our past and unresolved conflicts showed up in every interaction we had together. Learning to communicate, intentionally, truly and deeply, was life changing in our relationship.”
During our continued sessions, Jenna and Mike showed marked improvement. While they still encountered triggers, their response began to shift. Rather than succumbing to emotions, they were more able to maintain a level of self-awareness, preventing impulsive reactions even in the face of emotional turbulence. When the inevitable conflicts arose, they adopted a reflective approach—taking breaks, analyzing the root causes, owning up to their contributions, and making repairs. Over time, a surprising realization emerged: at the heart of most of their disputes was a deep-seated desire to connect. In the absence of effective communication tools, these unmet needs often manifested as emotional outbursts, a desperate plea for each other's attention.
“It was so powerful to realize that many of our biggest fights stemmed from a deep yearning to connect and be understood. Understanding that changed our approach to conflicts completely.”
Embracing this newfound clarity, Jenna and Mike are recalibrating their relationship's dynamics. Jenna is transitioning to her own space, allowing both room for introspection, individual healing, and engagement beyond their relationship's confines. With a toolkit comprising mindfulness, self-regulation, resonant communication, efficient conflict resolution, and purposeful connection, they are optimistic about navigating their relationship's evolution.
“Our journey with Ariane has been transformative. We've not only learned to navigate our relationship better and more efficiently, but have also discovered so much about ourselves and our unhealthy patterns. It truly feels like we're starting a brand new chapter, and we're excited about what lies ahead.”
From Surface Triggers to Deepened Connection
CARLA & JOHN’s STORY
*Note: Names have been changed to maintain confidentiality
When Carla and John came to me, they had been in a relationship for three years, bound by deep commitment. From the onset of their relationship, they had been exploring the realm of ethical non-monogamy, venturing into this unfamiliar territory at a slow and comfortable pace.
Their shared experience of attachment trauma brought them to seek my guidance in addressing the wounds and challenges they faced within the context of ENM.
“When we met, Ariane immediately put us at ease with her loving and accepting presence. She... helped us get beyond the surface-level triggers to the core of our trauma.”
Together, we embarked on a transformative journey that shed light on the underlying issues they faced, and in the process, nurtured a bond between them that was both deeply healing and profoundly meaningful.
“[I’d] recommend her to individuals and couples, monogamous and polyamorous alike, who are struggling with insecure attachment and seeking a new, powerful path forward for healing.”
Testimonials From the Breathe Intuit Community
It’s Wonderful to Meet You, Love!
Hi, Love! I'm Ariane. At the heart of my work is a deep passion for Somatic Attachment Therapy, Trauma Integration, and Conscious Relationship Coaching.
With the blend of my MS in Biology, certifications in Somatic Attachment Therapy, Yoga, Reiki, and HeartMath, and deep studies in Interpersonal Neurobiology and diverse somatic modalities, I intertwine scientific insight and embodied spirituality.
My mission? To empower you to harness the innate technology and wisdom of your heart and body to repattern your attachment system, so that you can break free from the past and LIVE as the LOVE that you ARE.
I wholeheartedly support individuals, couples, and those navigating the tapestry of multi-partner relationships, guiding them on a journey towards trust, depth, and freedom in their lives and relationships.
I love co-creating sanctuaries of presence, vulnerability, authenticity, resonance & love- spaces where the seeds of connection and intimacy are free to flourish and thrive.
Central to my approach is the understanding that our traumas and wounds, deeply imprinted within our cellular matrix, yearn for a healing that resonates with the primal language of the body—a dialect of sensation, rhythm, and the raw essence of being.
True healing means revisiting and renewing our cellular blueprints of RELATIONSHIP—to others, our bodies, environments, communities, cultures, and the vast Universe.
Can you feel it? Deep down, our souls crave cellular resonance—a profound sense of safety, understanding, purpose, belonging, and unwavering love on a deeply physical, emotional, and energetic level.
Without this essential bond, journeying through life becomes a daunting endeavor, disconnection seeping into every facet of our being and affecting our wellness beyond measure.
But by anchoring ourselves back into our bodies, breathing into our sensations, embracing our emotions, and cultivating embodied experiences of resonance and belonging, we can break free. In doing so, we step forward, returning to the dance of connection, radiating in our authentic beauty, and living as the love that we are.
This return to the dance of love is TRUE CELLULAR LIBERATION.
Connecting with oneself, with others, and the world at large is not just a transformative path—it's a deep and sacred invitation to the heart of existence. And in this beautiful dance of discovery and healing, I'm here to empower and guide you every step of the way. Are you ready to embrace this journey of liberation and love?
Let’s Breathe Intuit® together.
Sending you waves of warmth,
Ariane
Sacred Sovereignty: A Liberated Love Manifesto
As a pansexual and polyamorous being myself, navigating a world bound by traditional norms has deeply attuned me to the unique challenges and wonders of unconventional identities and paths. In my practice and life's mission, I stand firmly as an ally, in deep commitment to supporting and uplifting those who defy patriarchal, heteronormative, and cis-normative molds—be it the radiant LGBTQIA+ community, folks practicing consensual non-monogamy (CNM), or those embracing polyamorous and non-traditional relationships.
You are intrinsically allowed to want what you want. Pleasure, in itself, is not harmful; nor is it a transgression or a mere indulgence. I firmly acknowledge it as a universal right and a gift of being, not a luxury reserved for a select few.
I wholeheartedly affirm that pleasure and sexual well-being are essential pillars for a harmonious, equitable, and joyous world. Any societal framework that shrouds our erotic spirit in shame prevents the blossoming of a community that genuinely loves, respects, and uplifts each and every one of its members.
I stand against any notion that uses sexuality as a tool for oppression, maltreatment, or control. Each person inherently deserves the freedom to understand, express, and cherish their erotic nature, unhindered by outside judgments or limitations.
In acknowledgement and recognition of the undeniable presence of sexual errors and harm, I uphold the principles of trauma-informed transformative justice. This perspective aims to alter the circumstances that facilitate harm while holistically understanding the unique roles of survivors, wrongdoers, and entire communities. Its goal is to foster safety, healing, and resilience for everyone affected by harmful situations.
I believe that every individual embodies a sacred erotic essence. In my practice, I commit to deeply honoring and celebrating the diverse expressions of desire, relationship dynamics, and the innermost erotic selves of all. The realms of intimacy, pleasure, and eroticism are treasured sanctuaries here, with embodied consent, respect, and honoring as the guiding lights.
I honor the entirety of each individual body, celebrating its unpredictability, vulnerabilities, possibilities, and inherent beauty. Every unique shape and its expressions stand as a vivid reflection of life's intricate wonders.
To all who read this, know that your desires, your identity, and your love are valid and beautiful. Whether you're journeying to find your true self or have long embraced it, I am here, offering a sacred space for exploration, growth, and boundless celebration.
Let's journey together towards deeper self-understanding, acceptance, and love. Your sacred erotic essence awaits its fullest expression. Are you ready to discover it?
In love & reverence,
Ariane
*Inspired by the teachings and wisdom that have guided my path, I dedicate this manifesto to my teacher, Kai Cheng Thom.
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“If I go into the place in myself that is love,
and you go into the place in yourself that is love,
we are together in love.
Then you and I are truly in love,
the state of being love.
That’s the entrance to Oneness.”
— Ram Dass
